Joshua 24:15

"But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord." Joshua 24:15

Thursday, April 7, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 7

Day 7: A picture from one of the best nights of my life

enjoying the beautiful scenery at the Alabama Shakespeare Festival on our first official date, June 21, 2008
I've been blessed to have had a lot of wonderful experiences during my life thus far, but one of the very best nights of my life was my first date with Jordan. It may have been nothing overly extravagant in some people's eyes, but it was magical to me. I wrote the essay below for an English class assignment during my short time at AUM, and I figured I'd share it in this post. It's my account of our first date. Reading over it brings back all of the "butterflies" and crazy emotions of that very early stage in our relationship, and I fall in love with him all over again each time.


"Our First Date"

I still had no idea where we were going when Jordan arrived at my house to pick me up for our first official date on June 21, 2008. He had been planning the events of the evening for more than a week, and he persisted in keeping every detail a secret from me. If that wasn't torture enough, he had made sure to tell both of my parents and my brother his ideas. They all delighted in teasing me about the fact that they knew where he was taking me, while I remained clueless.
“Won't you just give me a hint?” I begged him constantly over the days leading up to the night of our first date. Instead, Jordan would simply smile, shake his head, and reply: “Nope! You're just gonna have to wait and see.”
As that greatly anticipated Friday night drew nearer, I grew more and more anxious. I had no idea what to expect, and quite frankly, I was starting to get a little nervous. It didn't help that when I asked Jordan what I should wear, his answer was so broad it left me even more unsure than I had been in the first place. Jeans and a nice shirt would be fine. A cute dress and heels would also do. After much consideration, I finally decided on one of my newer pairs of blue jeans, a chocolate brown blouse accented with lace, and heels to match my top. I just hoped that his plans didn't involve some sort of outdoor activity that required running.
When Jordan finally pulled up my driveway that warm summer evening, I was more than ready to find out what he'd had up his sleeve all week. After chatting with my parents for what seemed like an eternity, we finally made our way out the door towards his charcoal Chevy Silverado. Like a true gentleman, Jordan opened the passenger door for me, and shut it again after I had hopped up into the over-sized cloth seat. Then he quickly walked around to the other side of the truck, and climbed into his position behind the steering wheel.
“You ready for this?” he asked me, a sly grin creeping across his face.
“As ready as I'm going to be, considering I have no idea where you're about to take me.” He laughed as he turned the key, and the engine roared to life. Finally we were on our way. After about half an hour of easy conversation and frequent radio station changing, Jordan exited the interstate onto Eastern Boulevard. I began racking my brain of all the possible places he could be taking me. I watched as we passed by restaurant after restaurant, marking them off my mental list. Then, as if in slow motion, Jordan pulled into the parking lot of Carrabba's Italian Grill. I should have known; after all, it's one of my favorite restaurants, something he well knew.
“No way!” I couldn't help but exclaim, my excitement getting the best of me. Jordan laughed again as he got out of the truck and walked around to open my door. “Are you sure about this?” I asked him, as I took his arm and walked with him to the entrance. I knew it wasn't the cheapest option on the restaurant strip. He just squeezed my hand as he escorted me into the dimly-lit restaurant. We were greeted by a hostess, and quickly seated at a table in the middle of the dining room. Shortly afterward, a tall, dark waiter took our drink orders and left us to scan over the menus. Out of all the mouth-watering options, I decided to keep it simple, and ordered exactly what I was craving – bread and Alfredo sauce.
“Are you sure that's all you want?” Jordan asked me, a look of doubt spread across his face. “Please order whatever you'd like; don't worry about the cost.”
“I did,” I assured him with a smile. Our food was brought out quicker than either of us expected, and after giving thanks to the Lord for the meal and the time together, we ate, savoring each bite and the random bits of conversation in between. Eventually, the waiter brought the bill out. I scraped my leftovers into a to-go box, and grasped Jordan's hand as we walked out of the restaurant and back to his truck. My stomach was full, and I was happy. As we loaded back up into the truck, Jordan informed me that we still had some time to kill before the next part of the date. So there was more? Dinner had been wonderful in itself, and I thought that was the extent of the date.
Books-a-Million was located just behind Carrabba's, and the smile on my face grew as Jordan maneuvered the truck into a vacant spot in the lot in front of the store. I had mentioned to him how much I loved the place – I would live there if I could. Obviously, he had remembered this detail about me as well. We wandered around the store aimlessly for a few minutes, until he was ready to venture to the next part of the date. Despite my efforts, Jordan continued to refuse to give me any indication as to where we were going. By that time, however, I was just enjoying the suspense of the unknown. It had been a great date thus far, and I couldn't wait to see what else he had planned.
A few minutes passed, and my heart quickened as Jordan turned on his left blinker and pulled into the entrance of the Alabama Shakespeare Festival. He found a parking spot nowhere near the main building, and again walked around to my side of the truck to open my door for me.
“What are we doing here?” I couldn't help but ask.
“I like to come here from time to time to just walk around and enjoy the outdoors. Is this okay?”
“Of course,” I replied. I had never had the opportunity to tour the grounds, and I was excited to experience it for the first time with him. I thought it was a very nice way to end the evening. He held my hand as we walked along the winding sidewalk, admiring the beauty of the evening, and the sunset in the horizon. We came to a bridge and stopped to take some pictures. Below us, dozens of algae-covered turtles swam around in the murky water, and we laughed as we watched them chase each other. Several minutes passed, and Jordan suddenly had to use the restroom. There were outdoor bathrooms located closer to the main building, he informed me, so we headed back to his truck and loaded up once again.
He followed the road to the bathrooms, and pulled into another parking spot. I didn't need to use the restroom, so I decided to sit in the truck and wait for him to get back. I flipped down the visor to check my makeup, and when I had finished, I realized Jordan hadn't moved. He was looking at me and smiling, and when my eyes shifted down to his hands, I saw the ticket envelope that he was holding. I had fallen for it. The whole time, it had never crossed my mind, but I realized then that he had fooled me. I looked up at him, disbelief surely covering my face, and watched the smile of success spread across his.
“Would you please join me for a play?” he asked me smoothly.
“You've got to be kidding me!” was the only reply I could muster, and he laughed as he waved the ticket envelope in the air.
“You really had no idea, did you?” he said, as we walked towards the entrance. I was so excited I was literally shaking, and he wrapped his arm around me and hugged me tightly as he opened the door to the lobby. I wished I had worn a dress now that I knew where we were. Jordan had not yet given me my ticket, and suddenly I realized that I still didn't know what play we were about to see. Staying true to his element of surprise, however, Jordan kept quiet. It wasn't until we were seated in the theater that he finally presented me with my ticket and a program. Over the next two hours, the tragic and timeless events of Shakespeare's ever popular Romeo and Juliet were portrayed in front of our eyes.
By the time we exited the theater, I was pretty much on cloud nine. It had always been a dream of mine to see Romeo and Juliet performed on stage, and the Alabama Shakespeare Festival had not left me disappointed. It was nearing ten o'clock as we made our way to Jordan's truck once again. He started the engine and joined the line of cars waiting to get back on the main road.
“Well, I guess it's about time I get you home,” Jordan said somewhat reluctantly, as he drove down the interstate. “I hope you've had a good time tonight, though.”
“I've had a great time!” I assured him, giving his hand a squeeze. “Thank you so much for everything. Tonight was wonderful.” As we made our way over the river on I-65, we both glanced at downtown Montgomery's skyline. The lights surrounding the Biscuits baseball stadium illuminated the night sky.
“Hey, I just remembered something,” Jordan said suddenly. “We're gonna take a quick detour, if that's ok. Oh, and just so you know, I may get lost.” Instead of staying on the interstate, he took an exit that I was not familiar with. At that point, I had no idea what to expect, but I wasn't worried. He drove by the UPS hub where he worked, and then turned down a narrow road. After a minute or two, I spotted the back of the stadium. A few cars were already parked in the grass on the side of the road. I looked at Jordan, and he smiled. I realized right then what we were doing, and we had made it just in time. He pulled his truck off into the grass, and parked with the front facing the road.
“You are brilliant!” I practically screamed as we both jumped out, and ran around to the truck bed. Jordan lowered the tailgate, and we both took our seats on the edge. A moment later, the stadium went black, and the crowd cheered.
“Here we go!” I shouted with excitement, and we both held our breaths as we watched the sky above the stadium and waited for what we knew was about to come. Suddenly, fireworks exploded, not over the field, but directly above our heads. The heavens became a sea of colors, and I squealed in delight. I laid back in the truck bed, and heard the audience roar again as the all-too-familiar tune of “Sweet Home Alabama” blared through the stadium speakers. The show of lights continued, and when the finale had finally concluded, my ears were ringing. Ashes rained down on us from the smoky sky. I didn't sit up right away, too overwhelmed by the evening's course of events. I felt like I was in a movie. I looked over at Jordan, and we both started laughing, unable to contain our joy.
“That was amazing,” he said. I smiled and nodded my head in agreement. It was the perfect ending to a perfect date.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 6

Day 6: A picture of someone I find attractive
Jordan at his graduation from AUM in May 2008
There are a lot of good-looking people out there, but I can honestly say that my husband is the most handsome man in the world in my eyes. I am attracted to him for many reasons other than his obvious good-looks, though. I love his heart and personality. He is such a good, honest, hard worker, and he will do anything to help anyone. He always puts the needs of his family and friends above his own. He is truly one of the most selfless people I know. Most importantly, he is a man of God. If that's not attractive, I don't know what is! 
The picture above was taken shortly before we actually met, but it is one of my very favorite pictures of him. Isn't he handsome?! I just love him to death!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 5

Day 5: A picture of the school I graduated from


Good ol' Holtville High School - ain't she a beauty? (I'm sure my old English teachers would be so proud of my use of the word "ain't" there.) I sure do miss that place. I entered Holtville High School in August 2004 to begin 9th grade, and I graduated on the football field on the evening of May 22, 2008 with an advanced diploma and a 4.1GPA. I worked HARD for that, overcoming a lot of health issues that caused me to miss countless days of classes, particularly during my junior and senior years. Nevertheless, I can honestly say I truly enjoyed my time at Holtville High School. It really was a second home to me during my time there. I was very involved in many of the academic clubs and extracurricular activities available at HHS (SGA, Beta Club, Spanish Club, First Priority, Junior Civitan, Yearbook Club... just to name a few), and although I never played any sports myself, I greatly enjoyed going to football games, softball games, soccer games, and basketball games to support my friends and show my school spirit. I'm so thankful for all of the teachers who invested their time and knowledge in my life during my four short years there, and I'm so blessed to have made many wonderful friends whom I still keep in touch with today. I am proud to be a Holtville High School alumnus.

Holtville High School Alma Mater

We will sing for Holtville High School
Wherever we may be.
May those happy days be cherished
In our fondest memories.
Where those green and white are flowing,
Flowing for our loyalty,
We will sing for Holtville High School,
And our pride she'll ever be.

Monday, April 4, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 4

Day 4: A picture of me and my best friend(s)
 
Kasey, April, my mom, Candace, me, KD, and Kayla
photo taken by April Glover in February 2009 for our engagement announcement in the local newspaper
I decided to post two pictures for this particular day (something I'll be doing for several of the other days as well). I wanted to be sure I included my best friends from the past (all of whom I still keep in touch with), as well as my more "recent" and now very best friend.
The first picture is a picture of me, my mom, and my best girl friends, taken during our senior year of high school. I could say a lot about those girls, but I'll keep it pretty simple and just say that I love them. They are all such beautiful girls, inside and out, and I am so thankful for the friendships I developed with each of them over the years. They have seen me through a lot of ups and downs. They were always there to brighten my spirits and make me laugh when I felt like crying. And when I really did need to cry, they were there with shoulders ready. We have had a lot of fun, crazy times together. They are all amazing, and I am so grateful to have each of them in my life.
I wanted to be sure to pick a picture that my mom was in as well, because she is, and has always been, one of my very best friends. I can honestly say I have THE BEST mom in the world. No argument. I have always loved and appreciated her, but becoming a mother myself has given me a whole new admiration and respect for her. Anytime something comes up with Rylee, I automatically pick up the phone to call my mom. I know she'll always be there to reassure and encourage me. I honestly don't know what I would do or who I would be without her. I am the woman I am today because of her. I am the mother I am today by her example.
The second picture is one of my favorite pictures of me and my very best friend, now, and for the rest of my life - my husband. I can't imagine a more perfect partner in life. No one has ever made me feel the way he makes me feel. He has comforted me and cared for me through thick and thin. He has been there to carry me when I literally could not walk on my own. He has seen me at my very worst, and yet his love and devotion to me has never wavered for a second. I have laughed with him, cried with him, prayed with him, and grown with him. I love him more and more every day, and I am so blessed to call him my husband and friend. My BEST friend.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 3

Day 3: A picture of me and someone I grew up with
 
Seth, Amanda, and me in March 2006
I was blessed to grow up with my younger brother, Seth, and my little sister, Amanda. I'm thankful to have always had good, healthy relationships with both of them. 
Seth and I are only 19 1/2 months apart (I was born in February 1990; he was born in October 1991), and we have always been pretty close. Although, like all siblings, we've had our moments of disagreements over the years, we have never gotten in any huge fights or said any truly hurtful things to each other (example: "I hate you!"), and I'm very thankful for that. I always tried my best, even as a child, to never say anything to him that I might later regret, and I believe he did the same to me. It feels like just yesterday we were both little kids and I was forcing him to play Barbies with me. I can't believe he will be 20 years old in October. Although I'm only his sister, I've always had a very motherly instinct to me, and I get emotional sometimes thinking about him being all grown up now.
My sister, Amanda, and I have always had a close relationship as well. I was 11 years old when she was born in May 2011, so from day one, I was changing her diapers, feeding her bottles, and helping my mom with whatever else she needed. I can't believe she'll be 10 years old next month... she has really grown fast. In fact, the striped shirt I'm wearing in the picture above... now belongs to Amanda. It fits her. That's just not right... where did my "baby" sister go?

Saturday, April 2, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 2

Day 2: A picture of my very first home

(Please ignore the letters on the front of the house.)
I bummed this picture off of Google (my go-to source for many of the other pictures yet to come for this challenge). I'm sure I probably have at least one picture of this house somewhere, but there's no telling where right now, so I figured it would be easier to find a picture of it online... and I was right, because the house is actually on the market right now. Granted, the house looked pretty much nothing like that when I lived in it from birth to late 1997 (I think it was yellow at one point, and then blue... or vice versa, and the landscaping wasn't as nice as it is in the picture), but nevertheless, that's it - my first home.
Back in October 2010 when Jordan, Rylee, and I were down in Florida visiting my daddy and family (mentioned briefly in one of my previous posts), we drove by the house (one of our "traditions" with my daddy when we visit), and the current owners were sitting on the front porch. We stopped in front of the house, and I rolled down my window and waved to them and told them we were just looking, because I used to live in the house. Immediately, the woman perked up and asked, "Are you Penny?!" I got a little tickled by that and replied, "No, but I am her daughter." The next thing I knew, we were parking in the driveway, and the woman and her husband (I can't remember their names) were inviting us in to look around. It was a dream come true for me. After my parents divorced, my mom got a new job here in Alabama and sold the house. When we pulled out of that driveway for the last time on the day of our big move, I thought I was never going to be in that house again. It was so surreal to be able to walk through it 13 years later... with my husband and baby girl. I'm sure it was pretty surreal for the owners (the same people who bought the house from my mom) too, to see me grown up with a family. The last time they saw me, I was a 7-year-old little girl. Just like the outside of the house, the inside looked basically nothing like it did when I lived there, but it was so neat to see how they have modified it over the years. It really is a beautiful house. I am so thankful they allowed us to come in and look around that day... they will never know how much that meant to me.

Friday, April 1, 2011

30 Day Photo Challenge: Day 1

Day 1: A picture of me as a baby


Yep, that's me - "brand new", as my daddy would say. I was born at 7:06pm on Wednesday, February 21, 1990 at Waterman Medical Center in Eustis, FL. I weighed 9lbs. 1 1/2oz., and I was 21 inches long. I was delivered via c-section, and they pulled me out butt first (I was breech). I had rosy red cheeks and a head full of dark hair. Wasn't I beautiful?